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I have actually not been very happy this year. Anyone who has been chasing me for more than a year should know what happened.

On this day last year, even though I was a husband, I still celebrated my birthday alone. My life was even more miserable than if I were not single.

Just because the wrong person, others are always more important. Others who always only think about themselves and benefit themselves are always much more important than their relatives.

You should all know what happened next, which forced me to publish a book inexplicably, which directly added the identity of an author. Thinking about it, it is really magnificent and exciting!

The key point is that this matter is not over yet. At that time, I had a problem with my whole body and mind. For the sake of everyone, I unconditionally wanted to let each other go, and even moved our house too far away, but the other party was still unwilling, so we are still here. File a lawsuit.

I don\u2019t know how long this matter will drag on, but it seems that I can only let time verify it. After all, no matter how good you try, you will only become the bad guy in the story written by someone; the only thing I can do , that is, always keep a good heart, and eventually people with discerning eyes will see through.

Life is so long, there are only 365 days in a year, and it comes all of a sudden. It is not important, but it is not as indifferent as you think. Even if you don't think of it, others will silently help you remember it.

My birthday wishes are the same every year. I hope that the people who love me and me will be healthy and not have to go anywhere because of illness.

Another wish is that I hope that my inexplicable and bizarre lawsuit will end soon. You have your wonderfulness, and I have my mediocrity. There is really no point in dragging it all the time, especially when it seems that all this is just unwillingness to let go!

# Birthday # Genesis # Apple Tree<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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On my birthday, I officially implemented my dream of planting apple trees. I took out the apple seeds soaked in water two days ago and put them in a container. They already looked like white sprouts. I put them in water and covered them to keep them fresh. I used the film to make a greenhouse, and then I waited for them to grow bright green shoots, and then slowly transplanted them to my small garden, hoping to harvest them in two or three years.

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